BYI / DNI
Before interacting
Some of these may not apply if we're already friends- I am male (amab) and go by he/him pronouns, though I will not mind if anyone calls me by they/them.- Please be aware that I have Asperger's syndrome, and social anxiety. I may not pick up on certain cues or ideas and I only ask for your patience if I do so.- I swear very often but will keep it to a minimum if it makes you uncomfortable. In the event I do a vc however, it will be more difficult to keep that language removed.- I am very much okay with talking about taboo or graphic topics, excluding anything listed below in "Do not follow".- Activity can be slow, often dead seeming for long stretches of time. I find it hard to stay invested or focused on certain things, either due to stress, anxiety or depression. Once more I'll have to ask for your patience, but I also apologize if you don't hear from me for weeks. I am okay - just nerve-wracked.- If you're making me uncomfortable it may take me a little to explain it to you. I'm not a very confronting person due to past trauma, but eventually I do have to step in and tell you what I need to say.- If you happen to change your pfp or status to something in the DNF list, I may stop or slow interactions until it is changed back. This isn't me being a dick, I simply wish to remain detached from the media in question. I won't ask you to change it or anything, that's up to you.- I'm more than happy to talk about OCs or RPs, but if you feel like I am dominating the convo too much please let me know. I often feel quite insecure about potentially doing that at times.- Due to past experiences I don't do Discord servers. If you send me an invite I might join it but will probably do nothing and will leave if drama occurs. I can definitely join and interact in two-person servers.- I often use emoticons to a large degree, mainly using them as tone indicators. Please tell me politely to slow it down if it gets distracting. Telling me rudely or bluntly may result in me stopping interactions or blocking outright. I don't need a hardass.- I do got hot takes, and yes, you can totally make fun of them. I often look for that in all honesty, lmao.- I often consume media very critically these days, but I also don't wanna look like I hate them outright. I often give a tough love approach on media I enjoy, and often enjoy poking fun at it also.- I am not a political person so I am willing to interact with people of any stance so long as they are not outright toxic or extremely bigoted. This is also the primary reason why I do not feel comfortable introducing my friends to each other.I may add more later
Do not follow if:
- You are under 13. I am 23 for reference.- This account applies to the basic DNI criteria:
https://dni-criteria.carrd.co/- You are LGBT-exclusionary towards any group (trans, nb, bi, etc.). This also includes TERFs, they don't sit well with me either.- You are cishet-exclusionary, or even just cis or hetero-exclusionary.- You are a toxic pro-shipper of gross ships.- You support pro-fiction (the belief that fiction never reflects the ideals or views of the author).- You are inconsiderate about my spare time or are rushing me to do this or that. You are not entitled to have me around and there will come a time where you should not take me for granted.- You are a zoophile. Furthermore, if you cannot discern the difference between furry and outright zoophile, you're getting a fast block.- You are incestuous or support gross incest ships. One friend is the exception, though we still don't do those ships.- You are antisemitic or a neo-Nazi.- You are a necrophile. As someone who's had trauma over seeing corpses, I am NOT about that shit tbf.- On top of sexualizing minors, you also support minor/adult ships. Yes it's fiction, but it's also giving gross vibes.- You send me unmarked irl gore without warning. If anything I'd think you'd be hacked.- You support Autism Speaks.- You are deciding to steal my art or characters. You can draw art of them but you should ask for my consent first, and remember to credit me as the author of the character(s) depicted.- You support things such as NFTs, AI artwork and so on. I use AI art for fun occasionally, but there is a very serious danger of it eventually costing jobs and suppressing natural talent if left unchecked.- You make jokes relating to r/pe, committing "self-termination", animal abuse or self-h--m, or believe they are funny.- You use unacceptable or unreclaimed slurs frequently, especially if you use them to degrade others.- I have blocked you elsewhere.- If your fetishes involve things like vore, necro, guro, "toilet fetishes" (fecal/urine/vomit), sexual cannibalism, inflation, harmful identity fetishism, r/pe or obesity.- You use your disorders as excuses for all your mistakes. I have severe depression and I still take accountability for my actions. If I can do it then you should be able to.- You support cringe culture. It's fine if you hate something, but targeting others for it means nothing.- I know or knew you personally irl. I'd really rather keep my internet life and ourside separate.- You do not appreciate my atheist beliefs. No amount of bible thumping will change my mind, especially after the traumas I've dealt with regarding false Christians.- You are parasocial towards internet personalities. Like dude. They don't know you.- Mocking or disregarding the grief I am feeling over my loved one will be rewarded with an immediate block.- Saying "tldr" in regards to this post is probably also never gonna get me talking to you.
Do not interact if you are within these fandoms:
This once more does not apply to friends, but I still suggest you keep it out of our convos unless I consent (I will likely be derogatory or fetishistic out of spite towards those medias).- Virtually all "mascot horror" games, fnaf especially. The fanbase is a toxic cult which abused me back when I was a fan and artist, and since I left in 2018 I've grown to hate and resent it more and more.- undertale. I feel like I ruined my own experience for it and the fanbase also hurt me too much to go back. deltarune also.- Most creepypastas, if you stan them or such. I can definitely laugh at them but I'd rather move on from the 2013 cringe.- As an old Madness fan, FNF too bc hearing kids having never heard of the original series gets so painful and cringe to hear. If you're one of those people though, that's fine; and I do appreciate the series getting popular again to a degree.- Yandere Simulator- Coffin of Andy & Leyley, and I'm not listening to any defenses either- mcytMight add more later